Do happily married husbands cheat?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 03:33

Do happily married husbands cheat?

Yes, sometimes. I know a pastor who had an affair with his secretary for over two years. He said it was the best sex he had ever had. Later. When the secretary broke it off and told the wife, the wife wanted to know why. She was hurt, angry, but she wanted her husband to stay with her. She found this out later from another woman in the church, and these are the words she said to the wife. “You prepared yourself for this. Do you remember the women’s meeting when the topic was about cheating husbands? The wife thought about it, yes she remembers. Do you remember what you said that night when each woman made her statements? You said “Well, if a woman is so desperate to have my husband she might as well take him”. His secretary was with him more than you were and she got divorced and went after your man. “Remember, he may be a great man of God but given enough time and enough temptation he will eventually give in.” Long story short, they worked it out, 50 years later they are still together.

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I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?